What has happened to the world of military wives these days? Gone is the day when military wives were there to support and love one another and in it's place is a day of hateful, immature, "I'm better because my husband has rank" women.
When my husband joined the Marine Corps, I thought that making friends at our new duty station would be so simple because in my head was the image on women being accepting of new comers, welcoming parties, and fun dinners. Boy was I wrong! Don't get me wrong, I have made a few friends while being here, but it has taken 2 years to do so!
I recently joined a few Facebook pages that are specifically for the wives at our duty station, MCAS Miramar. I don't go to the pages every day, but when I do venture over to see what all is going on, I see nothing but drama, hate, and immaturity. Our husband's are fighting the real war and we don't need to be starting our own small wars between each other back home. I'm pretty sure our husband's don't want to hear the drama. Bashing one another for posting that they miss their husbands when they are gone for the weekend
and others saying "Mine's deployed, get over it, it's just for the weekend". It doesn't matter if it's a weekend or 6 months, you would still miss you husband! Let the woman vent about missing her husband...nobody jumps all over you when you do it! What's even more sad is that most of these women have young children. In my opinion, these children need to be raised being taught to love one another and not to put people down for their views and opinions. Sometimes I wonder if parents are even teaching manners and respect for others these days. If you look at the major rise in bullying in our schools, I would say that most aren't.
Anyway, my point to this post is this...we as military wives need to learn to "Love thy neighbor" and realize that everyone has their own opinions, but in some aspect, we are all the same and need to learn to respect and be there for one another because we are the only ones who will understand what we go through on a daily basis.
And I leave you with this....
this is the biggest reason i cannot wait for my husband to get out of the military. except for a few friends, i've found most (not all!) military spouses to be nothing but conniving, backstabbing, immature children...who unfortunately have children because it's "free"
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